i don't know when the last time i touched this xanga..i know its been for awile..i've been so "busy" with other things..well, i do update my bboykeno xanga often so i decided to stop by this xanga..i figured to leave some more advice since people wanted me to update..i just wanna get some things off my chest..
_recently i had to choose classes for my upcoming senior year next year..honestly, i feel like im old..(not to pinpoint already college bound students)..but there comes a time, and there will come a time that crosses your life when, you will have to make decisions..choices which will effect your future..i still don't know what i want to be when i grow up..and as each day passes, its harder to choose..i figured out im barely good at anything..yeh its sad..the only thing im interested in is psychology..or something computer related..and i really don't know what to do..my dad doesn't want me to become a psychologist..he quotes.."you're not going to find anything"..so im stuck..wasting my days trying to figure out what to do..taking high school courses that may not even partain to me..so school is a drag..but im trying all i can to bring it up.........what else.........dance, oh yes that word..im loving it..so much to do, so much to learn, so much to train, its an endless movement of motion..and i get motivated everyday..shoutouts to all the dancers out there who keep me alive =).........
__okayy, i guess i'll start with some advice for you people...thank you for waiting for iono a long time...i hope it can help you out...oh yeh, this is gonna be one of my old advice...until i get another topic in mind to blog about...
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BEING THANKFUL IS A HABIT---THE BEST ONE YOU'LL EVER HAVE
_How many times a day do you complain? If you're anything like me, the number is pretty high..its not criticism, just a statement of the way things are..i was reading this one quote i got in english class by a guy named Arthur Schopenhauer that states "We Seldom think of what we have but always of what we lack." wow, how true can that be??...each day that passes, there is a time when we complained at least once or thought about it...seldom does it happen, where we can go through a day without complaining...think about it?...when you wake up? don't you have that groan that implies "i don't wanna get up? i don't wanna go to school?-there's your complaint...or how about the word "why?" - its an implied complaint, another reason to argue back...or even the simplest things...its evident that society is a big complainer...what people need to do, is to be more thankful...thankful...If practiced regularly, it becomes a habit. It's really an attitude...real enjoyment starts from being thankful...Too bad Thanksgiving comes by once a year, i had so many things to be thankful for.It's the only time we're asked to stop and think about all that we have and to celebrate it with loved ones.But there's no reason why we can't do that everyday.We don't have to wait for a holiday in order to celebrate our blessings...
Have you ever heard that term "we never appreciate the value of water until the well runs dry? Its true with a lot of things...Its easy to take people, things and freedom for granted, especially if we've never been without them...what one thing that makes me angry about our society, is how people can be so ignorant...they lack the knowledge or experience to appreciate others and their enviornment...you can't just simply judge people because you don't know them or out of your own humor...your dissing your own kind...we're all humans bound together...we all need each other to live...or there will be war...would you rather have many killed because of a simple argument?...and to think, your hurting not only them, but their families and friends...put yourself into their shoes...no one understands each other, until you've seen their life through their own eyes...so before you go on and diss somebody, take a look of who that person is...do they deserve this punishment?...why are there people in this world that do that?...it sickens me...how many people sin...it's not going to be a pretty sight, once it comes down to the end...but what are you going to do?...some people in this world is soo stupid...lol...do what you gotta do...but for the people who actually sticks with it everyday...you're appreciated in some kind of way...
hm..it's one thing to appreciate people, its another to thank them...Have you ever noticed that we usually only say good things about people when they're not around?...Why do we tell other people?...Why not tell the ones we appreciate? Why waste those feelings of thankfulness? When someone dies, everyone else seems to have something good to say...We need to develop the habit of saying thank you to the people outside of the circle of friends and family...Doesn't it kinda make you feel bad for the people that work at gas stations, hotels, and other jobs that get treated by many of their customers? Here they are working for a living and helping us, but they're often treated as if they're non-persons competely devoid of feelings! you're treating them like robots! Yet, how simple it is to say thank you. In a matter of seconds, we can make someone else's day simply by showing our gratitude. STOP THE HATE!
since we're talking about the topic of being thankful...i've made a short list to sum things up...obviously im thankful for many things in my life, and i take no regrets...people have to learn that...
1)Friends, Enemies, Family, kelly
2)Boundless Opportunity
3)Education, Learning, Dancing
4)Quality of Life, and God
life in essence, is good...ups and downs...whatever you wanna put it...to get through life, you have to be thankful...im 16 years old...i've gone a long way...problems will come at you at any given moment...life is just unpredictable...until we appreciate the predictable...i don't expect that everyone should like change their ways...its an act of choice...i would love it if everyone could get along...stop the hate...you know what? it pisses me off how stupid people can get these days...
speaking of xanga::who goes online to diss someone on their page? what is their motive to simply leave a comment just to turn the person down? i don't get it..if people wanna talk shiet then don't go on someone's personal daily thoughts? as people mature, they're going to look back at this, and see how dumb they felt..i know i will in a few years will be saying "wow, i can't believe i was such a xanga whore, such a dork"...lol yehh...teenagers go through so much drama...and its crazy how low-life losers try to topple other people's feelings with the already stressful life we're living...LOL i seriously can laugh at comments like "your colors are gay"...or "whats up with your haircut?"...like WHO CARES?! HAHA...who cares what color it is?! does white not turn you on? are you a color freak who just wants to see the missing color out of your crayola markers box just to make you happy? lol...or the comment about haircut?...woahh buddy, im sorry my hair doesn't live up to your standards...geez LoL...what? you want an afro? buzz cut? bald? haha its called individualism...something you probably don't have...lol..."YOU LAUGH AT ME CUZ IM DIFFERENT, I LAUGH AT YOU CUZ YOU'RE ALL THE SAME" << i've always loved this quote, because its so true...being someone your not is pretty played out...looking at the same people act the same way, gets kinda boring right??...so why do we sit there and watch people diss you on xanga?? we don't< exactly...thats why i can give a damn what people think anymore...if you have the time to kill to go and waste a couple minutes making fun of someone, feel free...cuz words don't hurt me anymore...im grown out of the stage where immature 7 yearolds "diss each other" to make themselves popular...well lemme ask you one thing...when you get your job...are you going to be dissing your boss? what skills do you know by making fun of people, lead you to believe you will go far in life? i wonder??...think about it...
^^ i just like to speak on behalf of the xanga world...if you got a hater...tell them to FKCU OFF!!...or just ignore them...LoL...or laugh at them...whatever suits you...im actually thankful for haters...you lead me to believe that the word dumb ass lies inside certain individuals, and not just an animal with a goofy laugh  hEee HAWW!!...
__hahaha woah, i didn't expect to make a comment about people who diss each other...guess it slipt my mind...oh well, maybe you guys can relate?...and remember to STOP THE HATE!!...iono when my next blog will be, maybe in a week or two...tell me what you think...if you don't like my advice, then you can scrap it and watch tv or something...lol...but i do appreciate the people who take the time and read this...because im all about helping the needy...make people realize that there are others like them...and that...It is not how much we have, but how much we enjoy...thats wassup...peace and love...
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